Focus on Internal Restoration for Empowerment
Focus on Internal Restoration for Empowerment
The mission of Aseshate:ka'te Grief Services is to help individuals heal and recover from loss by renewing their spiritual fires, one loss at a time. This is done by the F.I.R.E. Process, which is a step by step process that incorporates cultural elements that focuses on internal restoration of a persons' spirit so they may feel empowered. This process is a wholistic and ceremonial approach to heal from intergenerational trauma and grief.
The mandate of Aseshate:ka’te Grief Services is to renew the spiritual fire within individuals by offering services that work to strengthen and encourage growth and awareness of self
by utilizing and incorporating cultural teachings while helping them heal and recover from loss. The impact of healing oneself extends to all those around them. As the fire within grows, so does the fire within the family and the community.
Aseshate:ka’te Grief Services has been offering individuals the opportunity to explore the grief issues in their lives and actively process them in a positive and supportive environment since 2018. The grief process was developed 10 years ago with the intention of addressing grief issues, including those related to the impacts of historical trauma on Indigenous peoples. Cultural components were added and used to develop the capacity of the individual to heal from unresolved grief while staying connected to their unique cultural identity. Medicines are also used with teachings attached before introducing them and only if participants are open to them. Aseshate:ka’te Grief Services approaches it from the perspective that the individual is the healer. The individual is capable of healing themselves when given the tools to do so and this process is just that, a tool for healing.
The services that Aseshate:ka’te Grief Services provide are informed by the teachings of our ancestors and founded upon our strength, resilience and interconnectedness to each other with the goal of creating a healing community. This is done by bringing grievers together to learn about grief and all its manifestations in their lives in a step-by-step process to resolve the pain caused by the losses they experienced. While Indigenous people have experienced generational trauma and have unknowingly passed the pain from those experiences to the next generation, we also as a people, must realize that we have also inherited generational strength and resilience evidenced by our people still being here against all odds. Connecting to each other and to ourselves as Onkwehonwe (original people) creates that spark needed to bring hope back to our people as whole.
Kanerahtiióstha niwaksennó:ten. Wakathahión:ni tánon Sharenhó:wane tewakwatsiratákie. Ahkwesáhsne nón:we tkí:teron. Kanien’kehá:ka wakehontsió:ton. Wakenonhsionnión:we. Kaié:ri nihá:ti wakewí:raien tánon kióhton nihá:ti wakateré:shen.
My given name is Kanerahtiióstha. I am a path maker (wolf clan) and belong to family fire Sharenhó:wane. I live in Ahkwesáhsne, I'm Kanien’kehá:ka (Mohawk Nation) from the Haudenosaunee Confederacy. I have four children and nine grandchildren.
I graduated with a Bachelor of Arts degree from SUNY Potsdam where I majored in Psychology and minored in Sociology. I also hold an Associates Degree in Social Work. I am a Certified Grief Recovery Specialist trained by the Grief Recovery Institute. I was also trained through White Bison’s Mending Broken Hearts training that deals with grief and intergenerational trauma. I've completed four cycles with the late Harry Thompson through the Ononhkwaon:we Traditional Medicines program for healing using the Medicine Wheel.
Aseshate:ka'te Grief Services was founded in May 2018 to provide grief counseling that specializes in intergenerational trauma and grief recovery utilizing Indigenous methods. Although the majority of my Western education and training has assisted in understanding the complexities of trauma and grief, the development and application of the F.I.R.E. Process incorporates my cultural knowledge as well as all that I have learned working in my community over the past 25 years.
I recently became a Certified Death Doula through the University of Vermont and I have been working on a Funeral Rites and Protocols book for my community to assist the community when they experience a death in the Longhouse. I have attended numerous trainings to be able to provide trauma informed care for those in need and have a love of learning.
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